because words really matter to someone

most people really like to talk, important or not they'll keep talking about anything. realize or not, sometimes what they said just hurt someone oh yeah we live in a wild world. i have thought like that, well sometimes it happens to me (someone judge me) but it hurts just in a glance then i just don't take it too seriously. but for some people, evidently it really matter because i found someone who thinking every other's people said to her/him, because in real life you're really don't know what other people's problems or what they have thought after you said something truth or lies. 

i found person who have problem with "am i kind enough? please don't hate me because i don't deserve it" i've been wonder "is he/she really think that way?" this person literally over-thinking what people's said to her/him. i know that this person is super kind even too kind, so when she/he get treatment beyond her/him expectation, she/he's starting over-thinking until she/he can't sleep after someone said something unpleasant. this is the worst case i've ever heard. she/he has a mental disorder, but no one knows because in front of many people she/he always smile, she/he stands like 'i have no problems' because she/he afford to hide the pain. oh god this is real, i don't even aware if i don't know her/him story. yeah she/he's hiding the pain all this time. 

please, everyone who read this writing, you can't liken one person to others like "bro you're to serious, you're just not fun. see, other person is alright everytime i say like that". my question is "is she/he?" because you're not conscious after that person make confession to you that he/she is really offended with that. you're not having to much permission cause your job is easy, you just have to filter what you said and if you can't you just have to shut up your mouth. if you have bad thought about other people, please just keep it in your mind. if you're intent to make this person leave the bad things you can tell her/him slowly and face to face, because if you said in front of many people you just made this person embarassed and over-thinking (again).

ps: sorry for using 'she/he' because i don't want to offend any gender in this story